thank you, my dear k.
i am accentric, but not a loud one.

shy.

horns eh haha
yes i tell everyone it must be my evil eye ; )

Maura, I'm sure people notice how pretty you are, as well as your spirit. You are lovely.

OMG, this is sooo me, I can't even tell you. LOL

***well...I've got the last name " Joynt" and its all shits n giggles from there!*** Lol ;)

Lauren, how could anyone ever find a beautiful flower intimidating?

Maura,
thanks. :) I have my moments. they're brief and fleeting, but they're there. ;)

As I mentioned to you, my bf and I have had many convos about first impressions since people online seem get build this little story about who you are, and it's usually surprising, and we've found usually more about them than you. :)

Sometimes it can be helpful or enlightening to know how others see us, as Stephanie mentioned above. You can learn positive things about yourself, or learn ways to better deal with others. For example, when I was in college I had a few people tell me they thought I was intimidating and had been shy about approaching me. What was really happening was that I was focused, not intimidating: I was holding 21 credits, working toward 2 majors, while working a 1-2 part time jobs, while fully supporting myself, while also applying to art schools in NYC.

So my time wasn't approached like most of the other students, who could afford to be laid back and casual. My day was tightly structured, full of strategies and juggling and things most of them hadn't yet had to deal with. The experience of being focused and having responsibilities was foreign to them, so they labeled it as intimidating. Which again meant that their first impression had more to do with where they were coming from than my actual personality. But it was helpful to know so I could understand people's comfort zones a little better. :)

Other times knowing people's impressions just tells you that they're ignorant arses, which also is helpful -- then you know to avoid them. ;) Like the guy I meant who thought that my pink hair meant I was "easy" (he might have said "slut", I'm being kind). I'm still baffled by this. ;) My best guess is that he was wound so tightly that dyed hair was "way out there" for him, so that translated to sexual free-for-all fantasy in his head.

Why thankyou, that mighty nice of you...

My first impression?

Warm, friendly, stable, sexy, together....


Too bad it's all wrong!!!!

;-)

yep know about the ink thing, I'm not quit covered but have a few

Thanks cutie. :-)
Maturity.......hahahahaha....I'm not sure that everyone would agree. I try to conduct myself with integrity, but at the same time, would prefer to still experience the world with the wonder and joy of discovery that is child-like in nature. But then, there's that brooding need to be alone with my dark and brooding thoughts a lot too....

lol friendly!!!

Most people see me as a freak...most people find that to be intimidating. I must be scary and crazy to have a tatoo on the back of my neck...lol. BTW, no, it really did not hurt all that much. I am lonely because the few people that I can find to be around are not very intelligent, are very boring, and pretty much a waste of time. More than anything I truly desire someone that can equal me in intelligence, still be fun, and accept me for who I am. I am sure that I will be forever lonely until I find such a person.

You know it's true! :>)

:)