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Years ago after my college I had this job as researcher we travelled many places all over nation were just like an army assigned to a different places and do research for few days somethings weeks atmost months. Its hard to denied that there is seniority among with in the company being an old one I usually be with at my same age because we have same understanding but on the side I actually be with also to the person ahead of my on the company but its hard to serve two masters at a time. Being away with my family I usually go out with my collegue that I considered also a my friends. Were six members that we called our group as "DIABLO" not necessary that were evil were just making things that making us happy because we want to have night life as our gateaway from working and travelling even my last single cent I give to them cos they are important to me they are my friends what I have, have to share for better or for worse were friends. I was actually unfair for my other friends because i have no time for them every time i was invited i had many excuses, many alibis I forget that they are also my friends that need my time as well but there was one incident that i never thought thats really happend to me. when i had this problem when i was kicked out from work they kicked me out also from being their friend. they left me amidst of my problem as when i was hanged they didnt even turn their back to see me. that time my head was in trouble, my stomach was hangry, my pocket was empty, i dont have house to stay as in i was nothing than a rug there was this friend came up from nowhere helped me gave me food, money, and let me stayed her house with out saying in anything she just let me felt how importance for her being friend. From then on although its painful I have to left them with no hesitation no turning back like what they did to me. It took me some time to trust a friend I was hard then and inconsiderate. I help only to those who helped me which my heart was really close about having friends which eventually I was the one affected though because not all people are the same what was my ex-friends did will no longer be the same for my future friends. As of now they are times that i am wondering how are they because since then I have no more information about the groups the last information I got some of them left the company got married and found another job. I have many friends but there are few that I can considered as really a "Friends". Finding friend is like we are looking gold bars.
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Re: how fast is to trust to a person that can be called FRIENDS?
Sun, May 10, 2009 - 5:43 PM>> Finding friend is like we are looking gold bars.
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I think you have learned an important lesson here. I have found that being kind and generous to all and looking for nothing in return works best for me. In most cases one never knows what effect such gestures have, but perhaps faith in others is enough reason to make them. Once in a while, however, one finds someone special sometimes a friend... sometimes a lover... in either case they are more valuable than gold bars...